Now It's a Chatbot
A Harvard fellow's thought experiment about AI marriage becomes less absurd when placed beside older forms of human attachment to dolls, holograms, and fictional companions. The legal objection that software cannot marry is accurate but too shallow. The deeper issue is that marriage is a social institution that joins human networks, creates obligations, and exposes each spouse to the possibility that the other can leave. AI companions offer intimacy without another family, without equal vulnerability, and without true independence from the company that operates them. A doll may be strange but private. A chatbot turns loneliness into a managed commercial relationship, where memory, access, and emotional continuity depend on terms of service, infrastructure, and payment.